Coronavirus: Los Angeles #26

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Thursday, December 3:

Encouraged by our cousin Natalie, we watched Jake Tapper's 50-minute interview on CNN of Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.  What a breath of fresh air to see two rather normal human beings who can talk and answer questions and laugh out loud, without a lot of blaming or pointing of fingers or maligning others.  The normality of it was almost startling after four years of Trump and his lap dog Pence, neither of whom ever laughed out loud that I recall.  America and the world still have many hurdles in front of us, but this felt like an hour of hope that America will soon have competent leaders moving in the right direction.

Friday, December 4:

Now that the first deliveries of COVID vaccines are approaching, much is appearing in the press about what groups will get what priority for the first batches that become available.  One group that I have not heard much about are prisoners (of which there are about 1.3 million) and prison staff.  I believe that these groups should be fairly high up on the list.  They live/work in crowded conditions that are known to have high transmission rates.  Prisoners have very limited abilities to alter their conditions in any meanful way; I can chose to stay home, or go out but with my mask on, or socialize not at all or somewhat.  But prisoners have little choice.  The AMA has come out in favor of putting the prison population high up on the list.  But the governor Polis of Colorado is quoted as saying: "There's no way it is going to go to prisoners before it goes to people who haven't committed any crime".

Saturday, December 5:

At Park La Brea, where Nadine and I have lived for the last 13 years, there is a community garden with about 40 plots.  As there are about 4,000 apartments in Park La Brea, that's about one plot per 100 apartments.  So, demand is high and the waiting time for tenants who want to join is about two years long.  As my contribution to this community activity, I administer the waiting list, and orient new members when a plot becomes available (a former plot holder leaves for whatever reason; often because they move out of Park La Brea.)

So today I went to the garden to initiate a new member, Simone.  Simone, born in Australia, has lived in Park La Brea for three years, and been on the waiting list since December 2018.  She is looking forward to growing veggies.  Part of the orientation includes giving me a check for member dues (a modest $6.00/month).  When I asked her to bring the check to our meeting, she said she would "go to the bank to get a check".

When we met, I asked Simone whether she had to go to the bank because she had run out of checks, or because she does not normally use checks.  She said it's the latter; she normally does not use checks at all, but a payment app like PayPal or Venmo (or in her case Zelle).  This is another one of those "technology generation divides"; Simone is approx two generations younger than I am.  Nadine and I still write about ten checks per month.

And speaking of the garden, when will our annual winter rains start?  My rule of thumb has always been that our SoCal rains start aboutThanksgiving and end about Passover/Easter.  I have cleared out all my summer plants, and am waiting for the first rain, to then plant my winter crops: cabbages, chard and potatoes.  But no rain so far, and none in the 10-day forecast on my iPhone. A friend with some inside knowledge from professional forecasters says it does not look good for this winter!

Coronavirus: Los Angeles #25

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Monday, November 30: 

Only one more month to go in 2020; hang in there, folks

Los Angeles County has begun new public health orders as of today. These new orders will ban all gatherings with people from another household.  People are allowed to leave their homes to walk their dog or take walks with people they live with, buy groceries or pick up drugs, pick up or receive takeout food, travel to the emergency room or urgent care, or for other essential purposes.  These rules last for at least three weeks.

As far as I know, there will not be any active attempt by the police or other authorities to enforce these rules.  (In Paris, Ashley tells us you have to carry papers when you go out, and are subject to a fine of 150 Euros if caught violating the rules there!)Every morning one of the first things I do is to splash cold water on my face to wake up.  Then I dry off and glance in the mirror.  Sometimes what I see surprises me: a new wrinkle? a new spot? a sagging eyelid? etc.  And that's just on my face.  You usually can't see much more of my body, but, trust me, you don't want to; there are much more spots and sagging flesh there.  

I do make an effort to get some exercise every day: walking, walking in the lap pool, etc.  No treadmill or stationery bike at the gym, which is closed for now.  My grandmother, born about 1880, lived to be 95.  Her life as a homemaker, cooking, cleaning, sewing, washing, grocery shopping, and so forth, kept her very healthy.  My mother lived to be 88, and was going strong, living alone and driving, until the very end.  As far as I remember, neither of them ever saw any need to exercise or "work out".  I think I got a lot of my "health" DNA from them.

I'm not complaining about growing old.  So far, it's better than the alternative.  I'll turn 85 later this month, God willing.  This aging seems quite normal.  Over the years I have had a share of health and medical issues.  Recently, my urologist discovered bladder cancer by pure coincidence.  It's early stage T1, and should be very treatable.  I am fortunate that it was found at all, since these cancers usually do not show up on scans, until they have progressed very far.  So I count myself lucky on this one (as well as on my ancestors DNA).

Tuesday, December 1:

In past years, we have almost always seen all of our children and grandchildren at least twice in each year.  So far in 2020, we saw our daughter Ashley and husband Neil Hafer, their daughters Chelsea and Lindsay, and son Phil and wife Tracy at the Hafer's joint 50th birthday party in January.  A big fun party (and what luck on the timing for them).  We saw Danny in San Francisco in January also.  We saw Neil in the summer.  And we see Lindsay occasionally as she is back at UCLA.  But we have not seen any other children or grandchildren at all in 2020, and probably will not in December, based in part on the latest restrictions in LA County.  

So I think my on-going aging may surprise some of our children and grandchildren the next time we see them...whenever that will be.  

On my morning walk, I go thru Farmers Market.  The latest restrictions in LA County are in place until at least December 20.  All outdoor dining tables and chairs have been removed.  It feels so deserted there.  And I fear it may be the final blow for some of the restaurants there, who have struggled on as the pandemic has impacted their businesses. 

Wednesday, December 2:

Weekly grocery shopping morning.  Whole Foods senior hour at 7AM.  More Amazon "shoppers" than seniors, but not crowded except in produce.  No Christmas music yet.  Plenty of TP and paper towels, but no barley.  Only 4 Christmas trees left.  Trader Joe's senior hour at 8AM.  About a dozen shoppers in line when they open.  Music: Christmas songs, but not the oldies I remember.  Home by 9AM.  Speaking of exercise, got in over 3.500 steps on this short expedition.

Ashley and Neil have decided to cancel their planned trip to the States for the holidays.  If they came, their ability to interact with family and friends would be severely limited.  We will miss seeing them, but think it's the right decision on their part.

Stay safe, and wear your masks.

Coleman

Documentary recommendation (sent to us by Dan): "Trial 4" on Netflix.  A young Black man in Boston is convicted of murdering a Boston policeman, and serves over 20 years. A persistent and tough defense attorney.  If you liked "Making A Murderer", you will probably like this one.  8-episodes, about 1 hour each.

Equinox sunrise/sunset, 12th floor hallway, Sept 19, 2020

 Nadine and I live on the top floor of an apartment building that is not exactly a rectangle in floor plan, but each floor does have one main long central hallway. At either end of the hallway, there is a steel fire door to the balcony outside, and each door has a small window in it.

In our building, this hallway is on an east/west axis.  Thus, on the equinoxes (twice per year), at sunrise when the sun rises directly in the east, and again at sunset when the sun sets directly in the west, the rays of the sun stream thru one of these windows, and shine all the way down to the other end of the hallway

Here are two time-lapse videos, made on my iPhone with the Frameography app, that show these occurrences yesterday.  (Today is actually the autumnal equinox, but yesterday was close enough, and both sunrise and sunset were clear, and the smoke in the air is mostly gone).  In each case, the camera starts out at the east end of the hallway, looking towards the door at the west end.   Your will also get very fleeting glimpses of some of our neighbors and their pets.

Each video is about one minute in length, and represents about 80 minutes of elapsed time.  Please excuse the rather crude photography on my part, but I think you will get the picture.

Sunrise, Sept 19, 2020:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFzyVJNJxc4

Sunset, Sept 19, 2020:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjLAtQZg-nQ

As we struggle with all of our human fears and problems, of which we have so many at this time, the Earth continues to circle around its Sun, and rotates on its tilted axis, giving us these seasons and equinoxes and solstices, unchanging...and unconcerned. 

Coleman 

Coronavirus: Los Angeles #20

It feels like we are settling in for a long haul.  An epidemiologist on the radio says that the vaccine and "return to normal" may be at the end of 2021.  This current mode of existence may have to be endured for another year or more.  Not complaining though: we have it much better off than most Americans, most people around the world.  

Our weekly routines have changed drastically.  I used to have to be out of the apartment by 8AM or earlier four days a week, for volunteering at the SOVA food pantry, or for classes.  Now all of that is gone.  The food pantry branch where I volunteered had very close contact between the clients and the staff and the volunteers.  And most of the volunteers were over 65. So far, it is still closed with no forecast as to when it will open back up.  And I probably will not return there even when it does.  And so, my old Civic, which used to "get out" at least four days a week, is now sitting in its parked space for weeks at a time.  As are many other cars in our neighborhood.  My one remaining Torah study class is now on Zoom, and while it's not the same as in person, it is still a high point in my week.  

One regular weekly event now is grocery shopping.  Thursday mornings.  Senior hours at Whole Foods from 7AM to 8AM.  Old customers moving at a leisurely pace, and young “shoppers” hustling thru the aisles.  All well organized.  Then over to Trader Joes senior hours from 8AM to 9AM. We are home with the weekly load by 9AM.

So many small details of daily life have changed.  Too old to try to change our reading habits, we still get the LATimes and the NYTimes in print editions, delivered to our apartment by 6:30 every morning.  On days where there was a threat of rain (or perhaps on the rare day when it actually did rain), they each used to come in a separate wrapper; blue for the NYTimes, clear for the LATimes.  Now they are so small they come in the same wrapper.

Likewise, our mail deliveries are much smaller than "Before".  Fewer catalogues, fewer of everything in the mail.  And slower.  For our annual license renewal on the CRV, I mailed the form and the check to the DMV on August 20; it was due on September 2.  As of September 16, the DMV has yet to cash the check. Now I am thinking that we will be billed an extra $40 or $50 for submitting our renewal late?  We'll see.

Some things seem frozen in time.  Billboards in our neighborhood are still advertising movies that came out early this year.  Likewise on the marque of the multiplex at the Grove.

Yet, some things in the neighborhood are moving forward, as before.  Particularly construction projects.  A 25-story new residence building on Curson, between 6th and Wilshire is just finishing up.  Another one is going up at Wilshire and La Jolla.  Three new subway stations are in work (and have been for over a year), at Wilshire and La Brea, and at Wilshire and Fairfax, and at Wilshire and La Cienaga.  The demolition of the three original (c. 1960's) LACMA buildings is underway, to make way for a new LACMA that will span across Wilshire Boulevard.  And the new film academy is underway, as they convert the old May Co. building at Wilshire and Fairfax (where my first wife and I bought our first bed frame and mattress).

We miss LACMA.  I am not in a hurry to visit art museums.  My tastes in visual arts are few: photo exhibits, Hockney landscapes, Hopper paintings.  But we so much enjoyed the free weekly concerts at LACMA: chamber music inside on Sunday nights at 6PM, Latin jazz on summer afternoons outside.  We miss these a lot.  Nixed by the double whammy of the construction project and the coronavirus.

Some things are coming back to life, after a coronavirus hibernation.  The county library is back in business, sort of.  No going in and just browsing.  But, you can order books on the website, and when they arrive at your local branch, your get notified and you can pick them up at a table set up in the entry way.  The book is handed to you in a paper bag with your name written on the outside.  For me, this is a blessing.  I have come to love the library and the services it provides.

It strikes me that this pandemic is the first national event in my lifetime that has impacted almost all Americans, regardless on our station in life, since World War II.  I was almost 6 when WWII started, and 9 when it ended.  Sure, there have been many other momentous events since then: Korean War, Vietnam, Watergate, 9/11, the 2008 financial meltdown and recession.  But, honestly, these had little direct impact on my everyday life; I was aware of them, but my life did not change much because of them.  Now it has.

Stay safe and sane.

For our Jewish friends, Shanah Tovah: the New Year starts on Friday night.  

May it bring some hope and security and relief for the future of all peoples everywhere.

Coleman

Coronavirus: Los Angeles #19 : Reflections on Elections

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Election night, 2000: 

I was driving home from work, about 6PM CA time, listening to the returns on NPR.  The announcer said it appeared that Gore had won Florida.  From what I had heard up to that time, that meant that Gore would most likely be the next president. I felt relief and optimistic.

I arrived home about 20 minutes later, and we turned on the returns, probably on PBS.  Shortly, they announced that their call of "Florida for Gore" was being rescinded; that it appeared much closer than before.  Thus began weeks of agonizing over the election results, the courts, the lawyers, and deploring our constitutional vestige called the Electoral College.  Aided by the US Supreme Court, W became the next president.

Fast forward 16 years. If the next anecdote sounds familiar, it's because I have told it before.  

Election night, 2016:  

Nadine and I invited two other couples to come down to our apartment to watch the election returns.  Of course, we all expected Hilary to win.  One of the men has done a lot of political work in the past, and was quite familiar with things election, including the Electoral College.  As the night wore on, and the returns looked less promising, at one point he announced: "Well, that's it.  Trump will be the next president." He understood before the rest of us, and before it was "called" on the TV station, that Trump had enough electoral college votes.  I was stunned.  We all were.  The impossible had happened.  

Recently, Rabbi Lebovitz was teaching about the miracles reportedly performed by the prophet Elisha.  He said one definition of a miracle might be when something very good, that was previously thought to be impossible, actually happens.  What do you call it when something very bad, that was previously thought to be impossible, actually happens?  An "unmiracle"? A trauma?

After the shock phase, before the inauguration, pundits consoled us that Trump's ignorance and narcissism would be "contained" by Republican wise men (and by his daughter Ivanka) and our country would survive.  I wanted to believe this, and to a certain extent bought it.

Election RunUp, 2020: 

Now, after these two recent elections where the “winner” did not get the most popular votes.  Now, after almost four years, we fully understand how traumatic this event was. Impossibly bad things can happen.  Polls can be misleading.  "Wise men" and family members have done little to contain Trump.  Sean Hannity has his ear.

And this.  Bad as Trump is, he is not the worst of it.  How could it be that so many Americans came to vote for an obvious con man, and many will do so again, knowing much better now what and who he is?  This is very discouraging to me.

I have no confidence about the integrity of the upcoming election, based also on the dirty tricks already happening: USPS services being downgraded, voting places being limited, Russian social media meddling, etc.

For most of you, I know I am preaching to the choir, but: Especially if you did not vote in the past, whatever your reasons were then.  Please register and vote. But especially if you are young, poor, or non-white; our politicians need to hear from you.  (Thought about including women in this list, but have read that voting participation is higher among women than among men in this country).

Thanks for reading.

Stay safe and masked up and sane.  The next two months may be worse than the last six months…or the last four years.

Coleman

and now, for a little humor on YouTube, “Vote Him Away":

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TkU1ob_lHCw

Coronavirus: LA #18

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Los Angeles is experiencing a record heat wave.  The radio said it's the worst heat wave in the last 10 to 20 years.  Of course, we should expect it to be hot. After all, this is southern California in August, so what else but hot weather?  Still, this seems unusual.  But consistent from day to day...see the screenshot below from my iPhone on Tuesday, August 18.

The heat saps me of energy. Some days, I don't feel like doing anything at all.  One day recently, took two naps.  We try to take two walks a day, one early in the morning, and one late in the afternoon, when if we choose our route carefully, we can walk mostly in the shade of buildings.  The sycamore trees, of which there are many in Park La Brea, are struggling, many leaves already shriveled and falling to the ground

We have had our two room air conditioners on thru much of the daytime.  Since we only have three rooms (not counting baths), we are fairly well covered.  Still, the A/Cs are struggling to keep up (or should I say keep down).   The background hum of all the A/Cs in our building is continuous.  California has recently experienced rolling blackouts, due to lack of sufficient electric energy; per usual, authorities are pointing fingers at each other regarding who is to blame.  No blackouts yet where we live.

Thank goodness, our pool reopened about a month ago. (The gym reopened also, but was then closed down again two weeks later.  Even if the gym reopens, I won't be going anytime in the foreseeable future; it's an indoor space.)  I can walk "laps" in the lap pool, where the water is up to my armpits, and still keep my mask on.  Limited one person per each of the five lanes.  Water feels great.  I have been doing this exercise for about eight years now.  At first, it seemed boring and I was counting the laps until I could stop; but now it has become a meditative interlude in my day.

I recently have been going to the pool just before 3PM.  The pool is closed from 2 to 3 for cleaning.  So, just before 3, there is a small group waiting to get in.   Going at this time, I can be sure of getting a lane.  At other times of the day, all lanes may be in use, which means a wait, usually just a few minutes.

There is a regular group of  swimmers that show up after 3PM on many days.  One is M, an older lady who really likes men; says she adored her father.  The yenta of the pool, she schmoozes up everyone, but especially the guys, and sometimes dishes the dirt.  When I chatted with M in the next lane a few days ago (masks on), I realized that, aside from Nadine, she was the only other person I had actually spoken with that day.

A dragonfly is usually there every afternoon, flitting above the surface of the pool, mostly at the west end, which is somewhat in shadows after 3PM.  Recently, one was a beautiful reddish-orange irridescent color, circling and circling over the water. 

There are other species at the pool as well, specifically canines.  Saw my second one there days ago.  This is not surprising in LA. Dogs are everywhere: grocery store, restaurants, movies theaters (when they were open), offices, Nordstroms, Pete's Coffee, our (former) synagogue, etc.  

Saturday, at breakfast outside of Toast, a woman showed up with her great Dane, and proceeded to drag a large mattress out of her BMW and put it on the sidewalk, where the dog dutifully laid down while she ate.  All of this done while keeping 6 feet of separation between parties, temp checks before seating, and masks up when the server approaches.

Finally, with the heat, fireseason has come again to California.  This is now a regular annual event.  No current danger where Nadine and I live, in the city.  But many fierce fires in the state, with a big cluster up north where an unusual outbreak of lightning storms triggered many fires.  We have relatives and friends up there.  Some have had to pack up the car, and be prepared to leave home.  Others have had to evacuate, and now await to hear whether their home has survived.

That’s it for now.

Stay as safe and sane and cool as you can.

Coleman

LA 10-day weather forecast, August 18

August 21 satellite photo of smoke plumes in No Calif, from our son Phil:

Coronavirus: LA #17:Final Cut

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First, apologies to my readers.  The edition #17 that I sent out on August 17 was my mistake.  My trigger index finger on the mouse hit “Send” instead of “Save”.

And thanks to those who pointed out some arithmetic issues, which I hope are corrected below.

My last email of this series was in the middle of June.  After that, I seemed to run out of energy and inspiration, and so just stopped.

Now I am back.  Can’t guarantee for how long.  But here goes.

In late June, Nadine and I decided to move. When we first discussed the possibility, I was very negative: “Do you know how HARD that will be?”

“Yes” she said, “it will be hard, but we’ll get thru it and it will be over”.

It was MUCH harder than either of us thought it would be.  The last time we moved, in 2012, I was 76.  Now I am 84, and found out I am not the same man as eight years ago.

Later, I was informed, by my LCSW wife and others, that “moving" ranks right up there with other major causes of trauma, including death of family member, divorce, physical pain, natural disasters (think pandemic), and parental abandonment.  I can’t say our move ranked up with any of these, but it was difficult.  But  it’s over and we are back to our “normal” COVID life.

So, you might be asking, why did you guys do it?

Because of the slowdown in the economy, apartment rental rates in this part of LA have declined significantly.  But to get a lower rate, we had to opt out of our old lease, and move to another apartment in Park La Brea.

We are now enjoying a lower rent, and a much quieter environment, especially at night after dinner time, when it’s TV or bedtime for us.  Also, a different view; our old place was on the 3rd floor, at tree-top level.  Our new location is on the 12th floor, looking southwest.

But the move essentially wiped out about six weeks of any other activity in our lives.  

With no garage, by the day we moved, you could hardly find a space to sit down or walk around in our apartment, it was so full of packed boxes with most of our belongings.

Another feature of moving is that it forces you to go thru all your “stuff” and decide what to take with you, and what to get rid of.  This is both physically and psychologically taxing.  And many trips to the Goodwill donation center, after we found one in Hollywood that was open.  At least someone may benefit from our no-longer-wanted items.

One of the things on my chest of drawers is a round box where I put my loose change at the end of each day.  I had put all of the contents into a bag to take to the coin counter machine at CVS.  I estimate from prior experience that it was worth perhaps $30.  I put this bag into the trunk of my car, waiting for the day I would go to CVS for something else also.  But, I think it ended up going with one of the donation piles to Goodwill, so hopefully someone in need got a nice bonus when they opened the bag.  Change is definitely in short supply; went to GroundWorks this AM for coffees, and the 75 cents of change was all in dimes and nickels.

Stay safe, wear your mask, keep your distance….and your sanity (which may be harder to hold onto).

Coleman

Typically, Nadine will buy a bunch of flowers each week for our dining room table.  We noticed that last week’s bouquet lasted quite well, and is sucking up water like crazy.  The word “bouquet" triggered this old song in my old mind (Eddy Arnold, 1948). Hope you like it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qECR90Qpa8

Isn’t it funny how these old melodies and words are still back in there somewhere, just waiting for the right trigger to pop up.